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I dont see anything wrong with it either. Not everyone has to marry. It is not the be-all-end-all of life’s purpose.
My point is that the list of dog, house, jobs, etc is NO indication of a man’s ability to commit.
Just as a man’s ability to have a relationship and a dog is NO indication of a man’s ability to hold down a job if he never has (excepting of course teenagers and college students who obviously have little experience with all areas of life).
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dimplz says:
February 13, 2012 at 2:52 pm
Ok, but if a man desires to hold down a job, then I would imagine you would assess his ability to be responsible. The men you use in your example don’t seem to be too enthusiastic about getting married. In fact, they seem to be very happy being single. Just the same as someone who is happy to be temping and working freelance, they wouldn’t be interviewing for a permanent position, would they? That would be a contradiction of what they are capable of versus what they want. A man who doesn’t want marriage isn’t going to date a woman who says, “I’m looking to get married in the near future.” They will date a woman who’s not looking for marriage at the moment. They will be involved with a woman who’s like-minded.
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JS says:
February 13, 2012 at 3:22 pm
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Getting Comfortable: When Lustful Love Turns To Flatulence
Juggling Relationships With Work & Life
Exploring The Five Love Languages And How To Express Love
Love Trips: Are You Ready? Yes I’m Ready?!
Misadventures in Blind Dating: Homeboy Slipped Me the Tongue
Dating in The Big Apple Trumps Flaky LA, USA
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Dating Protocal: How Women Can Make the First Move
3 Signs the Man You’re Dating is a Flake
A Daily Reminder of Him! Moving On When Breaking Up with a CoWorker
Why Trying Too Hard Never Gets the Guy
Don’t Know What You Want? You’ll Date Dogs
This Is Why I Decided to Help Women Attain That Good Love
Create A Vision Board for Your Love Life
What Men and Women Can Learn From Each Other As Friends
You’re Dating is a Fuckboy
Women Should Save Monogamy Till They’re Older and Wiser
Get A Grip! Social Media Paranoia Affects Relationships
I Fell for a Guy Who Warned Me Not to Get Attached
When a First Date Takes You to McD's It's Time To Demand Courtship
Get A Grip! Social Media Paranoia Affects Relationships
I dont see anything wrong with it either. Not everyone has to marry. It is not the be-all-end-all of life’s purpose.
My point is that the list of dog, house, jobs, etc is NO indication of a man’s ability to commit.
Just as a man’s ability to have a relationship and a dog is NO indication of a man’s ability to hold down a job if he never has (excepting of course teenagers and college students who obviously have little experience with all areas of life).
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dimplz says:
February 13, 2012 at 2:52 pm
Ok, but if a man desires to hold down a job, then I would imagine you would assess his ability to be responsible. The men you use in your example don’t seem to be too enthusiastic about getting married. In fact, they seem to be very happy being single. Just the same as someone who is happy to be temping and working freelance, they wouldn’t be interviewing for a permanent position, would they? That would be a contradiction of what they are capable of versus what they want. A man who doesn’t want marriage isn’t going to date a woman who says, “I’m looking to get married in the near future.” They will date a woman who’s not looking for marriage at the moment. They will be involved with a woman who’s like-minded.
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JS says:
February 13, 2012 at 3:22 pm